Has this ever happened to you? You’re going about your life and you suddenly notice something that was totally unexpected!
What do you do?
Oftimes we instantly make an assumption about what just happened, and why it happened.
It’s a totally normal, natural, automatic thing to do. You don’t have the think about doing it, it just pops into your head! And of course, since you are always right about everything, you know that this reading of the situation is not only correct, but the only possible answer and it rarely even occurs to you to look for another possibility.
That is really not all that bad. Where the problem arises is with what happens after that.
Because now you suddenly see things in a different light – the light you just presumed, or assumed to be correct – you change the way you act, or react, to that situation, or worse yet, to things in general.
All of a sudden you are changing your life based on something that you actually don’t even know about for sure. Because you have now decided to change your thinking by accepting your presumption as truth and so your feelings and thoughts have now changed, often not for the better.
You find yourself on a downward spiral, perhaps slipping out of control, definitely not what you normally would have decided to become, and you feel there is nothing you can do about it. Afterall, you didn’t give it thought and come to a logical conclusion after searching through the possibilities of what occurred. So you are simply along for the ride…
By checking on the presumption you made, particularly if you stop to ask about what happened or even brainstorming other meanings to what happened, you suddenly find not only a new thought process, but usually several possible reasons for what happened.
Now you are not locked into one way of thinking and acting anymore.
Now you are again the master of your soul, you get to choose what you are going to think and to do.
Oh, the things we presume! 🙂