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A Softened Heart


After the sleepless night last night but then writing about Christ’s light, I felt a great calmness and was able to go back to sleep.  And my day was pretty terrific because of the way I felt.

Even though I was at the doctor’s office with Beloved hubby, hoping we would get some answers about why he feels kind of dizzy sometimes (they will be running some tests as it wasn’t anything real obvious), I was still basking in the light of the revelation I’d received as I prayed the night before.  I saw life through new eyes and was able to let little annoyances pass by without giving them much notice.  What a great feeling!

While there I was reading in the Ensign magazine and ran across a wonderful article that enlightened my soul and further softened my heart.  The Ensign was the November 2013 issue, covering talks given by the General Authorities of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints during the General Conference of the Church in October, 2013.  I read a few words by the Prophet, Thomas S. Monson, reviewed the Table of Contents, then ran across the article, “Be Meek and Lowly of Heart” by Elder Ulisses Soares.

“Mormon taught that a man ‘cannot have faith and hope, save he shall be meek, and lowly of heart. He added that without such attributes, ‘faith and hope is vain, for none is acceptable before God, save the meek and lowly in heart.’

“Meekness is the quality of those who are ‘Godfearing, righteous, humble, teachable, and patient under suffering.’ Those who possess this attribute are willing to follow Jesus Christ, and their temperament is calm, docile, tolerant, and submissive.

“The Apostle Paul taught that meekness is a fruit of the Spirit. Therefore, it can most easily be attained if we ‘live in the Spirit.’ And to live in the Spirit, our lifestyle must reflect righteousness before the Lord.

“As we take Christ’s name upon us, it is expected that we strive to emulate His attributes and change our character to become more like Him each day. The Savior, admonishing His disciples, said, ‘Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.‘ If we ‘come unto Christ, … deny [ourselves] of all ungodliness; … and love God,’ then through Christ’s grace the day will come when we may be perfect in Him.

“‘Christlike attributes are gifts from God. [These attributes] come as [we] use [our] agency righteously. …With a desire to please God, [we have to] recognize [our] weaknesses and be willing and anxious to improve.’

“Meekness is vital for us to become more Christlike. Without it we won’t be able to develop other important virtues. Being meek does not mean weakness, but it does mean behaving with goodness and kindness, showing strength, serenity, healthy self-worth, and self-control.

“Meekness was one of the most abundant attributes in the Savior’s life. He Himself taught His disciples, ‘Learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart.’

“We are blessed to be born with the seed of meekness in our hearts. We need to understand that it is not possible to grow and develop that seed in the twinkling of an eye but rather through the process of time. Christ asks us to ‘take up [our] cross daily, meaning that it must be a constant focus and desire.

“President Lorenzo Snow, the fifth prophet of our dispensation, taught, ‘It is our duty to try to be perfect, … to improve each day, and look upon our course last week and do things better this week; do things better today than we did them yesterday. So the first step to becoming meek is to improve day by day. Each day we need to try to be better than the previous as we move forward through this process.

“President Snow added:

“’We have our little follies and our weaknesses; we should try to overcome them as fast as possible, and … should [instill] this feeling in the hearts of our children … that they may learn to [behave] properly before Him under all circumstances.

“’If the husband can live with his wife one day without quarrelling or without treating anyone unkindly or without grieving the Spirit of God … he is so far perfect. Then let him try to be the same the next day. But supposing he should fail in this his next day’s attempt, that is no reason why he should not succeed in doing so the third day.’

“Upon acknowledging our dedication and perseverance, the Lord will give us that which we are not able to attain due to our imperfections and human weaknesses.

“Another important step to becoming meek is learning how to control our temper. Because the natural man dwells within each one of us and because we live in a world full of pressure, controlling our temper may become one of the challenges in our lives. Think for a few seconds how you react when someone does not comply with your desires the moment you want them to. What about when people disagree with your ideas, even though you are absolutely sure that they represent the proper solution to a problem? What is your response when someone offends you, critiques your efforts, or is simply unkind because he or she is in a bad mood? At these moments and in other difficult situations, we must learn to control our temper and convey our feelings with patience and gentle persuasion.”

You can read the article in its entirety at https://www.lds.org/ensign/2013/11/saturday-morning-session/be-meek-and-lowly-of-heart?lang=eng.

This article gave me such great feelings of hope and closeness to Heavenly Father!  As I read I was filled with the Spirit of God and my heart and soul were softened.  My eyes misted as I felt the love of our Father in Heaven.  We are His children and He wants what is best for us!  He gives us these teachings, and other good things in life to help us to grow, to learn to become like Him, and to one day return to Him!

Yes, Mormons Celebrate Thanksgiving


A dear friend, who know that I belong to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (otherwise know as the Mormons), asked me the other day if I celebrate Thanksgiving.

A great question!

Of course, most people throughout the world and throughout history have celebrated the harvest and given thanks to whatever God they believed in.

In the United States George Washington called for a day of thanksgiving after the battle of Trenton, a battle which saved the Revolution.  And when he became President, he called for an annual day of thanksgiving.

I’m glad we have Thanksgiving.  It’s good for us to take a moment once in a while and contemplate what we have to be thankful for.  It’s good for us, puts us in a different frame of mind.  It brings peace to our heart and our very soul.  It softens us and helps us remember what is truly important.

Taking time to thank God, our Heavenly Father, for those things brings humility.  Not humiliation, and not subservience.  But humility.

Humility is knowing we are God’s children and turning to Him in faith and in prayer.  It is trusting Him, believing (or trying to be believing) that He is there, that He loves us, and that He can, and will, help and guide us and our friends and loved ones.  Humility is turning to God and being teachable enough that we act on the inspiration that He sends to us.

If you ever wonder if a thought that comes to you is from God or not, there is a sure way to tell.  “For behold, the Spirit of Christ is given to every man, that he may know good from evil; wherefore, I show unto you the way to judge; for every thing which inviteth to do good, and to persuade to believe in Christ, is sent forth by the power and gift of Christ; wherefore ye may know with a perfect knowledge it is of God.

“But whatsoever thing persuadeth men to do evil, and believe not in Christ, and deny him, and serve not God, then ye may know with a perfect knowledge it is of the devil; for after this manner doth the devil work, for he persuadeth no man to do good, no, not one; neither do his angels; neither do they who subject themselves unto him.” Moroni 7:16-17.

There are many, many benefits to being thankful.  In fact, it is so important that members of the Church are taught from our early childhood on up to pray daily and always to thank Heavenly Father for the blessings He has given us.

Not only do we celebrate Thanksgiving, we essentially do it on a daily basis.  🙂